
Has anyone noticed about the characteristics of these 16 year olds? I've noticed a pattern, many of them have the guy in their life that they think is going to stick with them until the end not to mention most of them aren't capable of living on their own. How many of them actually do? 8 out of 10 of the episodes of 16 and Pregnant that I have watched have had the men (although I should be calling them boys since they are still "kids") leave them, abuse them verbally or even physically, or gone out of the picture completely. I know of one couple on that show that made the smart choice in giving up their child for adoption. I believe the girl's name was Catelynn. This couple had been together for awhile but they knew they weren't ready for a child in their life nor were they stable enough to take care of it. Of course giving up your child after it is born is hard, but wouldn't you want what is best for your child? My mom watches this show, so it dawned on me to write a post about it. I honestly can't stand to watch this show because it makes me angry based on the people's behaviors throughout the show. The girls always complain that they can't go out, but who made the decision to have a child? They did. For some of them though, I have to say they are strong teenage girls. Realizing that yes they did stupidly pretty much put their lives on hold for a long time due to having a child but to the ones who stick it out without complaining and deal with the fact that their baby daddy or boyfriend had left them I will consider them strong for going through everything even though their parents are there to help them. There was a change in this seasons 16 and Pregnant with one of the girls. Her mother was different than all of the other parents. She tried to convince her not to have her child and get an abortion. She told her that if she had the child then she would eventually have to move out since she did not like what her daughter was doing. I have not watched anything after that episode but if that mother sticks with it then I give props to her.
This is the couple that gave their baby up for adoption and still got to see her. This couple did the right thing for themselves and their child. |
Going on a gender based view, the teenage girls and even mothers follow the type of gender role of that of a woman. They care for the children and their house. Yet, they also take on a part of the man's role. Instead of depending on the man, most of the girls, at least the ones who are smart enough, are independent. They find their own jobs, still try to educate themselves, AND take care of their child. To the teenage girls who actually do all of those things, I don't think I could nor would I want to do that so I feel as though I should give them some appreciation because of their hard work.
In my opinion, young girls such as ages 16 should not have a child. I apologize if I offend anyone. I'm not meaning to. All of this is just an opinion.
I LOVE this article. This show drives me crazy. It is glorifying having a kid when you're 16. In the show, yes the teens are struggling, but outside of the show, they're on magazine covers, getting paid to have articles written about them, and one of the moms even did some things that I know she will never want her daughter to see. At first the show was giving a good message, don't have sex and if you do, be protected because you are too young to raise a kid. Now one of the stars of the first season has made a sex tape, and there are other shows on TV all about teen pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteAnother great example is Secret Life of the American Teenager. It started off as a show to help get across to teens that if you are having sex, talk about it with your parents, and be protected. Now its to the point where at least 4 people on the show are pregnant, the girl that wanted to wait until marriage to have sex was defeated by the pressure of her peers, etc. It's making teen pregnancy seem like the norm and that is not ok. Teens already face enough pressures as it is, we don't need to add on to this by showing them that being a teen mom is do-able.